On The Mend
Christina’s 12 year old weekly blog
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The Morning’s Blanket
I wake around 5:30am every morning. Sometimes earlier. It feels calm that early. As if nothing is wrong. Silence feels like a blanket. As time
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Is this You?
When we were born, we should have been taught about ourselves. Our parents should have asked ‘who are you?’ before they asked, “is this your
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The Amateurs of Grief
I am finally understanding why blanket statements such as grief lasts forever are hurtful. These statements hijack the truth of what it really means to
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The Unbridging
I wonder, are we born people pleasers? Or do we become them later on, trying to avoid pain. Pain of any kind. Disappointment. Being ignored
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The Cast Iron Plate
I struggle when people unexpectedly put things on my plate. Balancing my own daily chores is more than enough. When one more thing is added
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If Only We Were Told From The Start That We Were Imperfect
If only we were told from the start that we were imperfect. That we could not strike the right cord unless we tried many times.
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Denial Is A Stage of Grief, Didn’t You Know?
Oh, dear world. I know you are crying. I know you are suffering. I know you are feeling stuck. Imprisoned. Helpless. During this virus outbreak.
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The Good, the Bad and The Unexpected of Our Times
In many ways, I feel like I can see your everyday life even more clearly than before. It is almost as if I have a
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The Couch Is Not As Safe As It Seems
Something has been on my mind for a few days now. I know you have seen the comments made on social media about how we
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Where We really Are, Is Inside The Waiting Room
It was fall 2007, in Massachusetts, the leaves were starting to change, and everything was looking almost eternal. Nearly perfect. It was then, when I
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We Live In A Kind World
There will be arguments. Disagreements. Misunderstandings. And above all, loss of friendships and relationships during this time. You will say angry things to people you
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We Already Know How To Eat, Sleep And Be Alone
I have to be honest. When self isolating started to take place, it kind of felt a little familiar. But it took me a few