On The Mend
Christina’s 12 year old weekly blog
Growing Up in One Afternoon
Sometimes you have to grow up in one afternoon. Maybe in an hour. 5 minutes, even. I wonder why we are not given longer. Why
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Mother Nature’s Icy Castles
When Mother Nature knocks on your door, you get down on your knees and pray. You pray for your family, your self, your neighbors, the
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Am I Living The Right Life?
What would it take to live the life of your choosing. Not of your dreams, even. But of your choice. And then, when you dare
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Growing Older
Today is Eric’s 50th birthday. My second husband’s birthday. This morning I woke up grateful for him being alive. Breathing. Moving. Being here to celebrate
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Three Seconds of Courage
Birds are brave. Not because they fly too high, but because they fly too close. Too close to our homes and us. In the last
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Don’t Label How You Feel With Basic Words
Lately, it feels like every day introduces us to a new intense feeling, doesn’t it? One of the reasons why everything feels more intense than
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The Big Rock Between Us
We are so alone. Aren’t we? Inside the chaos, the uncertainty. The longing. We find ourselves in a crowd of strangers. Especially now. Right in
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Sitting With You
I have to be honest. It is a hard day to write. I am sitting here looking for the words and the events of the
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The Small But Life Changing Gifts of 2021
I know this last year felt like a rollercoaster that kept dropping you. With no bottom. An indefinite drop. Your head couldn’t catch up. Your
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My Own Story of 2020
“We tell ourselves stories in order to live” my favorite author Joan Didion often reminds me. As I am putting words on paper for the
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Dating The Holiday Season Once Again
It is ok if some things that are meant to be easy, feel hard to do. Don’t compare yourself to others. If something feels hard,
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It Found You Crying in Front of the TV
I don’t know how it comes back, but it does. It comes knocking on your door. Even though you can barely notice it at first.