After a loss, you find yourself standing in front of a crossroad. You can’t decide whether to go left or right.  It feels like your

The most heartbreaking moments of our lives happen when nobody is watching.  Nobody sees us, then.  These moments are parts of the larger heartbreak.  The

Once upon a time, a day came that took everything from you.  And you crumbled at the nothingness.  You stepped inside of it looking to

I haven’t written much about dating after loss.  Not because I don’t have a lot to say, but because my conversation with you has always

I have a very specific vision of myself. Quietly residing inside my mind.  Comparing itself with the current reality I live in, every day.  It

I wish we could all run away.  Free. From everything.  When I think of that, I imagine valleys with green grass.  Sun shining.  And us,

I am in the UK on vacation with my family so there won’t be a letter today but just a short message to say have

The more awakened you are, the more lonely you feel.  And since grief awakens us, it becomes a lonely experience by default.  The key is

I love people more now than I did before he died.  I love people with nothing.  People who lost everything.  This Sunday it will be

I look for signs of my destiny in my childhood sometimes.  I can’t find any.  Not even a small tiny memory that could indicate the

I know this letter matters.  To the person who reads it while sitting alone on the floor.  In bed.  Standing in front of the kitchen